Apparently, I mixed up last week’s
assignment with this week’s, so I’m writing about week eleven on week twelve!
I really
liked how Ash spoke about how to be an ally, and how apathy is a big part of
being an ally. A lot of people I interact with on a daily basis often say that
they see no differences, and that they consider themselves to be “color blind”
who view everyone as one race: the human race. The point that they are
blatantly trying to say is that they do not care how you perceive yourself,
because at the end of the day you are the same as everyone else in their eyes.
According to Ash, this type of approach is filled with apathy: a trait that
separates true allies from the rest. When someone is apathetic, they tend to
look past, not only your differences, but as well your troubles. An actual ally
will recognize what makes you different from the rest AND acknowledge the
issues occurring within your community, and will use their privilege to better
the problems and make a difference without overstepping. Empathy, as Verna put
it, is what goes into building relationships with allies. Another thing Verna
mentioned was our biases. I am guilty of having some of biases even now that I
unknowingly fall back on. The only way to get over these biases is to face them
head first and become uncomfortable before allowing myself to become
comfortable. It can be a challenge, but like Verna said, it should not be about
perfection but rather about connections we make.
Clint’s
video was probably my favorite. The way he spoke about giving up his voice but
realizing it is something that was given up long ago resonated with me. I know
there have been several times where I wanted to speak up about something, but I
was too afraid. Clint pointed out that we often pay attention to what people
say rather than what they do not say, and I feel like this can be an
observation that can be used daily. Pay attention to what people tolerate and
what they will not speak out against. The action of them staying quiet is much
louder than what they do say.
The
Atlantic article was a really interesting read for me, especially since I
identify myself as a leftist. This generation is one of the most unique groups
to have been involved in politics, and this past election really allowed us to
voice ourselves. Sure, the results of the election were not ideal, but the push
that was initiated by the nomination of Bernie Sanders really allowed
millennials to voice the issues that are affecting our generation thanks to
past generations. The revolution of rising expectations is what happens when
issues have been prolonged and shut out in the dark for too long. The issues
were always there, but there comes a point where we try and try to do something
about it, but nobody is complying to work with the hopeful. I feel like with
the presidential election of Trump, this is what happened. Even under Obama’s
presidency, there was still a lot of systematic oppression happening, and
everyone was so hopeful for a presidency from someone like Bernie because of
how much the country was slowly progressing, but the day that Trump was
elected, protests took place and the people spoke out. To this day, five months
after the election, people are still out here trying to make a difference at
twice the speed.
Hey, I enjoyed reading your blog entry!
ReplyDeleteAs an ally and a minority, I see differences between myself and other people. I, too, don't really like it when people say that we're one race, they're "colorblind, they see no color, or anything similar to those. I don't want to call them ignorant, but many of them don't seem to try to have an open mind and listen. I hope that people acknowledge that there are differences between all of us.
About the biases, I think it's okay to admit that we all are biased to an extend. We were raised with opinions and mindsets from older generations. We'll never completely get rid of our biases. We can only try to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.